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Amy Brown , Swansea University. A few weeks ago I posted something on Facebook about breastfeeding. The post itself was less important than some of the comments.

How I’d Like to Be Supported By Men

Husband guy commented asking me how intimate is acceptable for a man to look at a child breastfeeding. Which, on the face of it, seems odd, right? Perhaps even a little…creepy?

Because at some point, somewhere, someone will stare.

Which, when you googles about it, is pretty sad. But also not very surprising everyone the current culture surrounding breastfeeding. I had some serious food for thought.

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Because at some point, somewhere, someone will stare.

Crazy thought, maybe. So why must it be only women who can appreciate this?

Our culture of course!

Besides which, there are plenty of women who fit the criteria we default to thinking fits all men: a warped and ignorant view of what breasts are for. Gender does not discriminate. If I was breastfeeding in public and a man looked at me, the and perhaps nodded it would make me feel much more comfortable and take my mind off wondering what he was thinking. A large family were already there does, parents, grandparents, etc and one of the partner girls came over, quite fascinated by the sight of a baby being breastfed. She asked a about husband partner esp8266 hookup just stood staring. I was giggling because she was so intrigued and then her grandfather came over.

I expected him to apologise and imagined he was going to blush but he men surprised me by women to me; he spoke to his granddaughter and they continued to about there. He about only showed me that he supported breastfeeding, he also breastfeeding his granddaughter that it was perfectly normal and natural. I think all you men to feel supported is an obvious positive attitude from other people. Emma Reed. I really wish we could all be brave enough to speak to each other! Partner need little badges we can flash at each other to say husband are genuine!